Our Life Along THE WAY...

Jesus said to him, “I am THE WAY, THE TRUTH, and THE LIFE. No one comes to the Father except through Me.John 14:6

Thursday, August 18, 2011

Figuring it ALL out

So, Zac and I have been trying to "figure it ALL out"...parenting that is. We have been measured and found wanting. Our latest task has been trying to figure out how to get this sweet little bundle of joy to sleep at night. Avery has been doing very well with nap time, but he seems to have amazing endurance when 8 o'clock hits. We start bedtime routine around 7 by bathing, singing or reading, nursing, and then praying right before we lay him down at 8. For the past 2 weeks he has cried for almost 2 hours every night (with us going in and shush patting him every 5-10 minutes) and finally around 10 I give in and get him up and nurse him to sleep. He also rarely sleeps more than 3-4 hours before waking up (shouldn't he be sleeping the whole night by now?). So if any of you seasoned parents out there have any miracle suggestions we are definitely open to it!



Weeping may last for the night




But JOY comes in the morning!








Thursday, August 11, 2011

Avery reading




Because it's fun to READ!






Growing up reading was one of my favorite past times. In fact I even remember making a competition out of it in Elementary school....Accelerated Reader...anyone remember those days!?! I was just ok at a lot of things growing up, but never really the best at anything...except reading (how dorky right). In fact I loved reading so much I was put in a national magazine for top Accelerated Readers (my claim to fame). We started introducing Avery to reading while he was still in mommy's tummy (who knows if he even heard us) and have tried to read to him even in these early months of life. Hopefully he will pick up on my love for books and reading! The short video of Avery listening to The Christian Mother Goose stories is in the next post...I think he likes it :)


Thursday, August 4, 2011

While I'm Waiting






"I waited patiently and expectantly for the Lord; and He inclined to me and heard my cry" Psalm 40:1 Amplified






Over and over again the Lord has spoken to Zac and I this week to "Wait on the Lord". We have been seeking direction and guidance the past month and we are eagerly waiting for the Lord to reveal His will and His calling for this family. I admit though the "patiently" has been the hardnest part. I heard a quote by Jentezen Franklin that is so true "We live in a microwave generation but we serve a crockpot God". I find that is the case with Zac and I right now, we feel as if the Lord has given us some sort of direction but no timeline and we are struggling with wanting it to happen NOW. The thing is though that God does not work on our timeline, He is outside of time and one day is as a thousand years and a thousand years as one day. That is where the "expectantly" waiting comes into play. If we lose that expectation of what God is doing and preparing while we wait, we will most likely lose the dream and the vision that He has given us. The Lord is forever going before us and preparing the way and if there was no waiting there would be no preparation and we would undoubtly charge right into a disaster. So just remember God is probably doing the most when you feel that He is silent, because He is preparing the way and working things out for your good!

Thursday, July 14, 2011

Count it all joy





So many things have been going on the past couple of months. It is a little hard to digest and get a handle on. I have already mentioned in a previous post that the very week Avery was due we had to move out of the house we were renting due to it selling. Avery was born on the 29th and we had to be out by the 30th. Thankfully we were ahead of the game and moved out a couple days before he arrived. We moved all of our belongings into storage and moved in with my parents temporarily while we waited for the house we had made an offer on to close. We were very excited and knew we were getting this house at a great deal. Everything seemed to be going our way as far as getting the house at a good price, not having to pay closing cost, no private mortgage insurance, and an amazingly low interest rate. Not to mention Becky our AMAZING realtor (and best friend) got us into the house a month before closing rent free! Things couldn't have been going any better (besides a few minor hiccups with repairs on a new build that had never been lived in) UNTIL we were walking in the neighborhood one Sunday evening and our neighbors stopped to talk with us. They asked us if the owner had disclosed any information about the house...we said "ummm no, what kind of information". They went on the describe what sounded like a horrific mold invasion of the home. Apparently the upstairs plumbing had leaked while the house was closed up for a couple months causing the ceiling to cave in, the downstairs hardwood floors to buckle, and mold to grow all over the walls. Needless to say we were shocked at such a story and wondered how much of it was true. So, we immediately went home and pulled up some of the carpet in the upstairs hallway and nursery and sure enough found evidence of ...MOLD. The next day we talked to one of our other neighbors who gave us the exact same story. We felt sure that the owner had fixed the problem and it wasn't as bad as they were telling us because the house looked fine. We had ServePro come out to look at the mold we had found which was dry. They cleaned up the area in Avery's room and told us that it was not a major issue which made us feel better. We decided to offer the bank less money with them doing and extensive mold test and fix the problem ourselves as long as the damage was not huge. We were fairly confident that the test would come back with minimal problems. We were WAY wrong. The testing was being done by Environmental Solutions Group out of Greensboro, NC. They come in and do air quality testing as well as moisture readings. I came home to find the inspector and Zac wearing N95 masks (which is what we wear in the hospital for tuberculosis patients) at that point I knew things did not look good. The inspector told us that he was getting some of the highest readings he had ever gotten in a home and that this home was "very sick". He told us we should not be living in the house and either to throw away all of our soft goods or wash them in special detergent. When we got the report back there were about 3 different kinds of mold spores in the air one of them being what they call a "no tolerance mold" that should never be found in a home. He told us our decision about buying the house should "be painfully obvious". His suggestion was that the house would have to be completely gutted and remediated and even then there was no garantee.



After finding all this out Zac spent the next 2 weeks moving things out of the house (on his own since I couldn't take Avery back in the house) and back into a storage unit. We are now back with my parents praying and asking the Lord for guidance and direction. We are confident that He works all things for good and protected us from something potentially very harmful and devastating. We know that even though things have been extremely difficult, He has a plan and a purpose for this family even if we can't see it at the time. I pray that as we wait our hearts do not become weary or discouraged. We are taking it one day at a time and trying "Seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness" because in the grand scheme of things this is a very small ordeal to God and one day will it really matter if we had our own house? This is really just a blip on the timeline of eternity and when we are able to look back I pray that we are able to say that we handled this situation with patience and long suffering, and that loving God and His people mattered more to us than a house.


Besides, Avery hasn't seemed to mind...he is just chill :)



Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Wednesday, June 22, 2011

Little Man

Wow time flies! Avery will be 8 weeks old in a few days. Zac and I are super blessed and we have so much fun with him. Zac calls him "Little Man" and I find myself calling him an assortment of things mainly "Bubba" or "Bubs". He already needs his first hair cut but I just can't bring myself to do it. It is already hanging well over his ears. He also JUST lost his umbilical cord (with a little help from mommy which I hate to admit). I was starting to think that he was going to be 18 and still have it attached. If anyone has ever heard the Veggie Tales song "I ain't got a belly button" that was going to be Avery's theme song. I also thought that we were well on our way to sleeping through the night after two nights of only getting up one time to nurse, but last night dashed all my hopes after he woke up three times. He also LOVES when his daddy gets home from work. Zac can make him smile like no one else (Avery must think he looks funny...JK!). Yesterday when I put Avery down for a nap he was belly laughing in his sleep...it was super adorable :)


Watching Levi and Cora slip-n-slide wishing he could get in on the action

He loves his Nana!
Aren't I cute?!?

Laughing

Daddy time

Deer in the headlights look

I LOVE bathtime!!!

He's modest ;)

Bedtime

Pictures do lie...the next shot was of Zac rushing over to catch him as he was falling over

Mom look at me!!!

Can I get up now?

Daddy trying to console "Little Man"

:)

Mom my eyes!

Handsome dude


Look at that hair!